I see your point and that could be an option, but he may or may not want to ever meet his birth parents. In any case you would have already done the “leg work” so to speak. As long as the birth parents knew that it was up to your son to ultimately decide if [...]
Posts Tagged as ‘searches’
September 5, 2008
Question #7
Another question dealing with birth parent searches:
I have a follow-up question on the birth parent search issue. I, too,
have been thinking about ways to open our adoption a bit more on
behalf of my 3-year-old son. I noticed that each respondent said that
the decision of whether or not to have birth family contact should be
up to [...]
July 12, 2008
Question #3: Juli
This is a tricky question. There are a million factors that make everyone’s situation unique. I think it’s important to remember that the ultimate choice about contact is between your child and her birth mother. Respecting the birth mother’s desires and privacy are of the utmost importance. Small measures, like putting a letter in your [...]
